Gimme
Statements!
I don’t want
to hear any questioning or doubt in his tone.
I want a strong foundation to stand on.
I want assurances of facts. Not
intentions. Pure, solid statements of
truth from him. Not put forth for my
approval. His terms, whether I like it
or not.
Gimme
Statements!
When I’ve
done wrong, I need to hear the consequence from him. His scolding me. His lecturing me. His
displeasure. The reassurance of his
authority. His assuring me that he won’t
hesitate to use his authority. Him telling
me my bottom is gonna pay for my behavior.
Gimme
Statements!
When I am bent
over the desk and he’s paddling my bottom, I need him to restate all his statements. I need to hear them again. I listen better when each sentence is
punctuated with a solid swat to my behind.
Gimme
Statements!
I can stand
on his statement. I can respect his
statement. I can obey his
statement. I can hear the love behind his
statement.
And I stand
stronger because of his statements.
oh yes, the lecture is a very important aspect for me too. And, it is said (don't ask me by whom) that men communicate better when they are involved with an action/task/sport. So I find that this is when H seems to find his voice on certain matters. Not that he doesn't communicate otherwise. But this connection, during this time, is very important to both of us, and has reaped us both huge rewards! :-)
ReplyDeleteWe still are in process of working our way towards Dd so I haven't received any statements. But I suspect there will be a dynamic change when I finally do!
ReplyDeleteI agree! But...here's the thing. Sometimes I find I have a hard time processing his statements and answering his questions to the level he expects when he is smacking the heck out of my backside! Ever have that problem? I told him during my last BIG one that I needed a half-time, lol.
ReplyDeleteI am so glad Captain doesn't ask more than things I need to answer yes or no to during a spanking. I don't think I could answer. I get most of the in-depth questions when I am across his lap and he's rubbing and patting...which has it's own distractions, lol.
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