I will not let anger or frustration brew until I throw an angry hissy fit or totally shut the whole family out. I recognize that how I act and feel affects everyone in the house, not just me.
I will be honest about what I am feeling, EVERYTHING I am feeling. I will communicate with Captain. When I am having health problems that interfere with my emotions, I will tell him.
When I am worried about something, I will share that with him, and not try to carry it alone. I will not worry about things that I can’t fix.
I will be strong and consistent with the kidlets. I will maintain calm authority over the house while he is at work. I will consistently move forward with homeschooling. I will not let the children badger me until I give them what they want. I will not let the children tag team against me. I will not let them drive me to the point where I throw my hands up in frustration and give up.
I will be a happy, submissive, obedient, communicative wife, secure in Captain’s love for me. I understand that I am safe with him, protected from attack, especially the ones I wage against myself. I will rest, content in his shelter, knowing that there isn’t anything stronger than the two of us working together.