tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7867634766726967004.post1975492256746173674..comments2022-11-04T03:54:21.276-05:00Comments on Captain and Kate: Agreeing to Disagree and Spanked AnywayKatehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18352670895273545432noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7867634766726967004.post-91244396789234375972012-09-05T22:31:55.261-05:002012-09-05T22:31:55.261-05:00Hmmm, I got this warning the other day as well, Da...Hmmm, I got this warning the other day as well, Daddy doesn't allow distance. It's one of the nicest features of our relationships, that we have a mechanism that brings closure and peace, and a deepened closeness. Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7867634766726967004.post-60410006224731030372012-09-05T05:36:22.197-05:002012-09-05T05:36:22.197-05:00I remember the egg-shell times.
The idea of not be...I remember the egg-shell times.<br />The idea of not being free in your own house to say something innocently, because it can be so easily taken wrongly, is really devastating for a man.<br />It kills all communication.<br />I remember all the fights, where I simply had no idea what we were fighting about.<br />It was my main reason for introducing DD.<br />I can see why Captain did not want to let it go.<br />Bashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15378333708912059004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7867634766726967004.post-65554787460867626582012-09-04T15:47:15.017-05:002012-09-04T15:47:15.017-05:00This sounds so familiar! I was always getting mad ...This sounds so familiar! I was always getting mad and then when Blue tried to talk to me, I would say everything's fine. Like you, I don't get away with that anymore. It is great to just talk things over now, even when I don't think I want to...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7867634766726967004.post-80161528439902240052012-09-04T06:57:49.504-05:002012-09-04T06:57:49.504-05:00Yes...and you were both better afterwards. I can&...Yes...and you were both better afterwards. I can't for the life of me figure out how this works sometimes, but it just does.Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02119037021959690783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7867634766726967004.post-6739056438127651202012-09-04T00:04:59.936-05:002012-09-04T00:04:59.936-05:00It is *so* hard to accept a punishment when you di...It is *so* hard to accept a punishment when you disagree. :( It's also hard when you did the best you could in the circumstances but you get punished anyway. It does feel unfair, but good for you for accepting it and moving on. In cases like that, even more than the zero tolerance and keeping his word...I think it's helpful to think of it as being pushed to constantly improve and try harder. Except it is kind of an ouchy process. Hugs.<br /><br />AnaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com